One of our tables at dinner. :)
First of all, we had about 20 people there so we took up an entire row of tables, which was fun in and of itself. But here's how Thai barbecue works: There's burner in the middle of each table, with a propane tank on the floor underneath, and then a dome shaped metal "pan" (if I can call it that) is placed over the flame as a cooking surface. The bottom edge can be filled with water which boils and is used for cooking both vegetables and fish (including octopus and whatever meat you might prefer to boil rather than grill) Thusly:
Mmm.... Dinner.
There was rice and noodles available as well. But the way that this whole cooking system works is that you go to the counter and get a tray of raw meat. Among the trays you pick up, there is at least on large piece of fat. This is used to grease the pan. So, to begin, you put the piece of fat on the pan, let it melt up a bit and then rub it over the pan and let it sit in the middle of the top of the dome for the entire time you are cooking. Then you cook your choice of meats on the surface (or in the water, your choice). Your meat choices (all of which I had the amazing pleasure of enjoying tonight) include octopus and some kind of white fish that was amazing, liver, beef (which my dear new Thai friend Yumi seemed to prefer boiled), pork, and intestine. Yes, I ate them all and much of each. Not as much liver as I would have liked, though, as it took ridiculously long to cook compared to the other meats.
I am very proud to say that I successfully maneuvered the meat cooking and eating without burning myself on either steam or popping grease and fat from the fatty pieces of pork.
This is what it looked like when we were done. That piece in the center is the 4th or 5th piece of fat for greasing the surface. Amazing.
Anyway, after dinner the Evangel team, one of the students named "Rainbow" and I went to the Night Bazaar to do a little shopping. It was so much fun. Lauren told us, for cultural experience and observation, to watch the vendors and farang when they are bartering and see who was in control. Definitely an interesting display. Even to participate in. I have done a significant amount of bartering in other countries and this was the first time I have seen vendors so radically in control of a deal. It was definitely an interesting observation.
Farang walks up and looks at some wares.
Vendor: "You like? Normal price 350 baht. For you I make special price, 300 baht. You buy more I discount."
The farang hasn't even opened his/her mouth yet.
"You like, yes? 300 baht. 2 for 550 baht."
It was amazing. The vendors were so perfectly in control. Even when the farang started trying to haggle... Interesting cultural observation.
Anyway, back to the part about feeling refreshed. I have been struggling a bit being so far away from anyone that I know, feeling disconnected, and pretty lonely. These are all things that I expected, being so far away, but tonight at dinner I was able to sit with Yumi, who is the young woman (26) whose house we went to for dinner the other night. It was so great to talk to her, because for some reason I felt a connection with her even before I knew what her name was. She was just such an inviting person. She has a very hard life, which I don't feel at liberty to share publicaly like this; but she is still so open. I could almost sense that she longed to connect with other Christians, which makes perfect sense given her family situation. I sat across from her at dinner, because I really wanted the chance to talk to her some more. I guess you could say I have been longing for similar Christian fellowship as well.
After we had been chatting for a while we rearranged some of the tables so that a couple of people who came late could sit together and I moved to sit next to Yumi. Last week, after the scavenger hunt I had been asked to share some of what it means to me to "belong to God" through a little bit of my testimony. I had tried to share a brief amount of my family history and some times in my past that I have been able to distinctly say that God had cared for me and let me know that I belonged to him (I say "tried" because I started crying trying to share and didn't get to say half of what I had intended before I had to put the mic down). But Yumi took the opportunity to ask me more about my family. After I told her a little more and about working for my parents and things like that. She said to me that she thought I was a very good daughter and that I obviously loved my family very much (which was something I really needed to hear at that moment). I don't know where the question came from, but Yumi asked me what I do when I am lonely. Having recently been actively struggling with such feelings, the question caught me completely off guard and simultaneously comforted and encouraged me. We were able to then talk about our mutual feelings of loneliness and how we dealt with them. This was a conversation I had literally been praying for, because I needed to be encouraged by someone who could actually look me in the eyes and give me a hug.
It was such a refreshing night. I feel like I am 10 pounds heavier for all the meat I ate tonight and 20 pounds lighter for being encouraged. Please continue to pray for Yumi and her family, as well direction for me as I have been presented with an opportunity to come back to Chiang Mai to teach for the month of September after I go to the Philippines.
Thank you,
-Kristen Wolf